http://lukenichols.com/2005/07/29/opinion-piece-1-self-esteem/ I'm normal honest! Tue, 11 Oct 2011 06:19:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://lukenichols.com/2005/07/29/opinion-piece-1-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-48 Mumsy wumsy Tue, 09 Aug 2005 09:51:50 +0000 http://lukenichols.com/blog/?p=37#comment-48 I like the idea that we can give and receive from those who know and love us - whether it be a positive praise type thing or a bit of advice or reflection back to us on how we have affected them... and even more that we can know we are loved for WHO we are, not just how we look or what job we do...when I go shopping, I always like to tell the salesperson if they have done a good job, just as equally if I think they have done a crap job.."cos I'd noticed that most folks just complain about the bad stuff but forgot to notice the good stuff...I've also banned "not bad" from my list of answers to questions...firstly 'cos it's a non answer, it's negative and says that I can't be bothered to be honest with the person who bothered to ask...so, I guess what i'm saying is that this negativity stuff is soemthing that I've been trying to turn around too. I love seeing you come out and be positive Luke. Keep going I like the idea that we can give and receive from those who know and love us – whether it be a positive praise type thing or a bit of advice or reflection back to us on how we have affected them… and even more that we can know we are loved for WHO we are, not just how we look or what job we do…when I go shopping, I always like to tell the salesperson if they have done a good job, just as equally if I think they have done a crap job..”cos I’d noticed that most folks just complain about the bad stuff but forgot to notice the good stuff…I’ve also banned “not bad” from my list of answers to questions…firstly ‘cos it’s a non answer, it’s negative and says that I can’t be bothered to be honest with the person who bothered to ask…so, I guess what i’m saying is that this negativity stuff is soemthing that I’ve been trying to turn around too. I love seeing you come out and be positive Luke. Keep going

]]> http://lukenichols.com/2005/07/29/opinion-piece-1-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-31 admin Sat, 30 Jul 2005 14:53:53 +0000 http://lukenichols.com/blog/?p=37#comment-31 Well i think at first it would be shock, but i would say "Really?" then later would come, "Thanks" but i would be shy about it. Well i think at first it would be shock, but i would say “Really?” then later would come, “Thanks” but i would be shy about it.

]]> http://lukenichols.com/2005/07/29/opinion-piece-1-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Kitta Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://lukenichols.com/blog/?p=37#comment-10 So Luke, what would be your first reaction if a girl came up to you and said "you're an attractive man"? So Luke, what would be your first reaction if a girl came up to you and said “you’re an attractive man”?

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